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issue #56 - the one where we’re not going back

The past two weeks. Whoa.

I’m late to this fight. I’m guilty of telling myself all the things (‘but I have Black friends!’ ‘I read books by Black authors!’ ‘I support Black Lives Matter!’). But there’s a difference in living in a non-racist bubble of privilege like I have, and being anti-racist.

I’ve popped that bubble. I’m awake. And I refuse to go back.

Black lives matter.

Black history is AMERICAN history.

Black people deserve the public safety and security that we have always enjoyed and taken for granted.

Anti-racism is not something to check off your list. It’s a new way of living, of questioning all your preconceived notions of how things work, and for listening and learning versus saying ‘but!’

It’s about damn time I showed up. I hope you’ll join me in this fight.

If this is your first e-mail from me, welcome! In addition to writing the book How To Pack, I'm an entrepreneur and angel investor, an avid reader, and a mom of two boys (a 5 year old and a 1 year old).

Every Saturday, I share the 25 best reads from the Internet (culled from the daily shares on my Instagram), the books I've read that week, and things I'm generally loving at the moment. You can join the conversation on all these articles - and more! - in my Facebook group.

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#ThingsILove This Week

I’ll be perfectly honest - I haven’t been aware of how many of my regular purchases were going to Amazon and other major retailers until last week. I went on the same black-owned business shopping spree that I think many of you did as well. It would be wrong to pretend otherwise, so I’m going to share the businesses I have been shopping for a while and will share new businesses as I shift my regular purchases over to them.

  • I have struggled to find a nude pair of shoes for…ever. Until I met Rebecca Allen and slipped my feet in a pair of her shoes. And I’ve never gone back. Allen’s three styles are timeless, insanely comfortable, and you’re guaranteed to find YOUR nude shade. I’m a proud investor in Rebecca Allen, and I am so excited for what they’re launching next.

  • Evryday Jane was founded by Rakia Reynolds (communications powerhouse and a dear friend). I remember her telling me about an idea for a travel-friendly clothing brand that was also fashion forward, and that’s exactly what she created. I own and love this matching top and trousers (for a jumpsuit look), this modern take on a skort, and the travel pod is *chef’s kiss*

  • Rec Room’s dresses are magic. They hit top marks for comfort, fit, color, I’m proud to call Dre and Val friends, and even more proud of their commitment to racial justice. With actual money. Not lip service.

  • My sweatshirt collection is exclusively made up of Phenomenal, which I’ve shared here time and time again. Each of these cozy sweatshirts and kitten-soft t-shirts supports a different cause, and my father has a habit of ‘borrowing’ mine. My boys have quite a growing Phenomenal collection as well, with these Feminist t-shirts and onesie (sold out) and this Black Lives Matter shirt for Rho (and for myself).

  • I’ve only blow dried my hair once during quarantine, and that’s exclusively because of Briogeo’s avocado & quinoa co-wash (the BEST one and done shampoo/conditioner I’ve ever used and better than all the separate products I’ve used) and rice amino + avocado leave-in creme. Their hair quiz is excellent (it recommended these two products to me), and I haven’t had to use my Overtone coloring mask as frequently when I switched over to the Briogeo products.

What I read this week

  • No, You Shut Up - Symone Sanders is the only reason cable news was worth watching during the Democratic primary in 2016, and the rare times she’s on a news network today. I thought she was a political prodigy who swept onto the scene as Senator Sanders’ national press secretary in ’16, but I know now she’s been doing the work since childhood to earn her seat at the table and I AM HERE FOR IT. Her memoir is rip roaringly funny, so smart, and I really want to be her friend. Until that day comes, I have her book (on audioon Kindle, and the physical one is on the way) to keep me company.

  • Kamala And Maya’s Big Idea - if you have kids, you know how rare it is that they want to read a book again and again and again, and even rarer that you like that book. This is the book that hits both marks. It’s a true childhood story of how young Kamala and Maya Harris rallied their apartment building to come together and build a playground in their courtyard, despite the early no’s and lack of funds. Meena brought the story alive with so much love, positivity, and a youthful sense of activism and my boys (well, Rho) is just obsessed with it. As am I.

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